Happy sunshine - happy warm weather – happy face time with friends! Several years ago I read a book by Edgar Schein, The Art of Humble Inquiry. The book has stayed with me, and I strive to follow its lessons. Today, more than ever before, the art of humble inquiry is a critical skill. Humble Inquiry asks questions. We are in a culture that loves talking, loves telling. We need to learn to ask better questions because we operate in an increasingly complex, interdependent, and culturally diverse world. We couldn't possibly understand what others in the room know. Asking rather than telling invites people in. Fundamentally, asking empowers the other person and makes me vulnerable and available and, for that moment, even more approachable. Humble Inquiry requires authenticity. You ask questions because you genuinely are interested and curious. You can't fake this - if you are disingenuous, it will only work for a short while. Humble Inquiry is even more important when all involved parties need to do the right thing, to be connected on the same mission. In my work, especially in a political environment, good relations and reliable communication across hierarchical borders is crucial. “Here and now" humility is our awareness that we are dependent on others to accomplish something we are committed to. And Humble Inquiry challenges me to overcome the belief that, "if you're not winning, you're losing." It takes a lot of growing to stop telling - and start asking. Steven Covey echoes a similar sentiment in his book, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: “Habit 5: Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” See you in the trenches. B
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This blog beautifully captures the essence of humble inquiry. It’s remarkable how asking open-ended questions with genuine curiosity can foster deeper connections and understanding. Embracing humility in our questions not only enriches conversations but also allows us to truly listen and learn from others. The emphasis on approaching others with respect and a willingness to learn is a powerful reminder of the impact that thoughtful questioning can have in both personal and professional interactions. Thank you for sharing these insights! 8/21/2024 06:12:49 am
What a thoughtful post on the art of humble inquiry! I appreciate the emphasis on asking open-ended questions and listening with genuine curiosity. This approach not only fosters better communication but also strengthens relationships and encourages collaboration. Thanks for sharing these valuable insights on how to practice humility and effective inquiry in our interactions. 10/24/2024 10:51:09 am
This piece on The Art of Humble Inquiry beautifully captures the essence of curiosity and genuine connection. It emphasizes how asking questions with humility fosters deeper understanding and relationships. A reminder that true learning comes from listening and valuing others' perspectives. Thank you for sharing such insightful wisdom! 10/26/2024 08:26:12 am
This is a fantastic exploration of humble inquiry! Your insights on the power of asking thoughtful questions to foster understanding and connection are truly inspiring. It's a reminder that genuine curiosity can lead to deeper relationships and richer conversations. Thank you for sharing such valuable wisdom on this art! 11/13/2024 05:07:26 am
This article beautifully captures the power of humble inquiry in fostering deeper connections and understanding. Thought-provoking and insightful! Comments are closed.
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